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The following article was published in the <\/em>Journal and Courier\u00a0on May 30, 2013 and is reproduced in its entirety below.<\/em><\/p>\n

Recently our second daughter Karis walked across a platform at Purdue University and received her Bachelor’s Degree in Chemical Engineering.\u00a0 My wife Kris and I could not help but think of all the joy Karis has brought to our lives and family.\u00a0 We also contemplated how tragic it would have been had abortion ended this story before it had barely started.<\/p>\n

Twenty-two years ago an unmarried young birth-mother and birth-father entered a community hospital.\u00a0 By then they had made two heroic decisions.\u00a0 First, they wanted their baby to have the gift of life regardless of the pain, sacrifice, and inconvenience it caused them.\u00a0 Second they believed that it would be best in their case to place their baby for adoption because they were convinced they could not provide a stable home environment at that point in their lives.<\/p>\n

A few days later our family received a call asking if we would adopt their little baby girl.\u00a0 Our \u00a0five year old daughter Bethany had been praying for a sister as my wife and I struggled with infertility after her birth.\u00a0 It is impossible to describe the celebration this new gift of life created in our home.\u00a0 We named our baby girl Karis, the Greek word for grace.\u00a0 Psalm 127:3 took on an entirely new and fresh meaning — “Children are a gift from the Lord.”<\/p>\n

Over the last twenty-two years we have done our best to provide a loving home for Karis.\u00a0 She has been a blessing to our family, our church, her schools, and our community in every conceivable way.\u00a0 The Lord allowed us to subsequently adopt another child, our son Andrew who has special needs.\u00a0 To watch our daughters help care for and love their brother who is blind has been a thing of exquisite beauty.\u00a0 The Lord has enabled Karis to delightfully live up to the meaning of her name.<\/p>\n

After graduating as a valedictorian at Faith Christian High School four years ago, Karis entered Purdue on an academic scholarship.\u00a0 She is now taking her newly minted engineering degree and entering the work force for a drug manufacturer in our state.\u00a0 Only God knows what additional ways she may serve and enhance our world in the days ahead.<\/p>\n

In some ways this article is a plea to birth mothers contemplating abortion.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong> Yes, I am a man which disqualifies me from speaking on this topic in the minds of some.\u00a0 And yes, this decision is intensely personal with a myriad of extenuating circumstances to consider.\u00a0 But I would gently suggest that our experience demonstrates that the decision is personal for two individuals, not one.\u00a0 Had Karis’ birth parents ended her life in abortion, they would have stopped her beating heart.<\/p>\n

Some progressives say that there are not enough people willing to adopt all the babies whose lives are currently ended in abortion.\u00a0 That is an outrageous lie.\u00a0 Everybody involved in the adoption process knows that the number of loving homes prepared to adopt a child today is immense.<\/p>\n

Please also keep in mind that a biological parent can choose a variety of ways to interact with his\/her child after the adoption.\u00a0 In Karis’ case, we have had the wonderful privilege of reconnecting with both her birth-mother and birth-father who are now a cherished part of our family.\u00a0 They can now share in and celebrate the very life they allowed to continue.<\/p>\n

Karis is exceptionally bright.\u00a0 Who knows what contributions she might make to our culture in the days ahead?\u00a0 Her productive work will add to the tax base and help fund social security for others.\u00a0 Most importantly, her sweet character will be a blessing to everyone she meets.<\/p>\n

It is true that in our culture, once a child is conceived the biological parents have a choice to make.\u00a0 Our family would urge you to let your baby live.\u00a0 After all, you may be carrying the next Karis.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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