{"id":272,"date":"2010-10-27T11:53:17","date_gmt":"2010-10-27T15:53:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.fbclafayette.org\/?p=272"},"modified":"2011-12-12T09:29:00","modified_gmt":"2011-12-12T14:29:00","slug":"is-sex-outside-of-marriage-acceptable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.faithlafayette.org\/church\/is-sex-outside-of-marriage-acceptable\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Sex Outside of Marriage Acceptable?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A few weeks ago, I was asked to respond to a young lady who was looking for some biblical advice about her dating relationship.\u00a0 There is a lot of discussion about this subject in Christian circles.\u00a0\u00a0While there are some points on which good people can legitimately arrive at different conclusions, there are other points on which there can be little debate.\u00a0 The issue of pre-marital or extra-marital sex is one about which the Scriptures speak clearly.<!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>What the Bible Says About Sex Outside of Marriage<\/h2>\n<p><strong><em>God has designed sexual activity to take place within the context of marriage.<\/em><\/strong> This is made clear by the Apostle Paul\u2019s statement in 1 Corinthians 7:2.\u00a0 He says, \u201cBut since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.\u201d In this verse, Paul explains that marriage is the \u201ccure\u201d for sexual immorality.\u00a0 He acknowledges that people find it difficult to control their sexual passions and urges them to marry so that their passions can be righteously fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p>Because 1 Corinthians 7:2 includes sex outside of marriage in its definition of \u201csexual immorality,\u201d all of the Bible verses that condemn sexual immorality apply. \u00a0There are numerous Scriptures that declare sex before marriage to be sin (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13, 18; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7).<\/p>\n<h2>What This Means in Your Life<\/h2>\n<p>This does not mean that those who have previously engaged in extra-marital sex cannot be forgiven.\u00a0 They can be forgiven because the blood payment that Christ made on the cross was sufficient to cover <em>all <\/em>sins.\u00a0 It does, however, mean that those who claim the name of Christ must refrain from all sexual activity\u2014regardless of feeling, sentiment, or motive\u2014outside of bonds of marriage.\u00a0 \u00a0Sex is intended to be a blessing and a benefit of the marriage covenant, and God has ordained that all sexual activity be carried out within the context of a loving relationship between a husband and his wife (Hebrews 13:4).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few weeks ago, I was asked to respond to a young lady who was looking for some biblical advice about her dating relationship.\u00a0 There is a lot of discussion about this subject in Christian circles.\u00a0\u00a0While there are some points on which good people can legitimately arrive at different conclusions, there are other points on&#8230; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.faithlafayette.org\/church\/is-sex-outside-of-marriage-acceptable\/\">read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[105],"tags":[181,182,220,163,219],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v19.14 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Is Sex Outside of Marriage Acceptable? 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